Saturday, July 27, 2013

Women as Objects



Women and how societies and communities see them can be really different from one place to another while the same women here or there, but this different views coming from cultural, religion and educational basis. Feminism is just the logical step against different kinds of discrimination organist women although feminists will have less impact in third world countries where they should be more impact as there is more discrimination against women in those countries.

My biggest wondering is how can we give someone their rights while they don't even feel they suffering from any lack of rights as they been raised to make them believe they are the sideman to your man. The fact that some women biggest dream is to find love with a man doesn't mean she's a sidekick to this man, it's a partnership they both are equal. I think this man domination to the world have one factor behind it "strength" body strength as the animal side of us use strength  as a supremacy reason while we are in a world were minds change the world.

I can mention hundreds of women who had a huge effect through mankind history but at the end of the day whatever she did they will always talk about her looks and outfit, the sad thing is not only men don't care much about what a woman do but other women too with all the focus on her physical and outside looks. For those who love stats do you know that the average IQ of a woman is higher than the average of a man?

Women as a sex objects is one of the most shameful ideas ever, I'm not going to talk about how women mistreated sexually especially in third world countries.  Even in developed countries women can be treated as sex objects as it's a marketing fact the women catch eyes so they can be used or use their bodies as a way of marketing. From one mistreatment to another comes sex slavery and trafficking, they call it escorting, fun massage parlors, prostitution or even pornography I call it slavery either to a dollar or a pimp or even the idea of selling bodies. Read more about sex slavery and you will see how discrimination against women  can lead to.

Different ways around the world and through history shows how women mistreated women as workers or property is another way of discrimination and mistreatment in some places around the world women get paid less cause she don't have the same chromosomes as a man. Women in Saudi are not allowed to drive cars for some reasons. In the Arab world a woman will be so famous for a sex tape and yet most Arabs don't even know who Tawakel Karman is or Shirin Ebadi. Women and religions will always be a question mark but I belie that all religions that I read about respect women and cherish their value but bending religions to fit agendas or some men preferences could be the reason behind the feeling of mistreatment to women. for more examples I strongly recommend this check it out.

Women and I don't have to tell you that those women are our mothers, sister and daughters cause that's just cheesy they can only have their full rights when the majority of women understand and feel that they deserve better while brave men will back them up, this is not only for women it's for all humanity.

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Haters gonna hate, but should they?


It's a fact that hatred is just part of us and we can't argue about that, but what we can really argue about is the amount and types of hate cause only here we can determine how this hate control our lives. From hating an artist (maybe Justin who knows) to hating a commercial brand to hate speech to hating a race every step on the way you getting closer for more than hatred feelings but to cause real damage on the ground, check this picture below


Yeah fortunately it's a pyramid which means as we go up less do this but the bad news is that those on the top of the pyramid caused world wars and since 1945 the world is trying to avoid WWIII and avoiding the hate should be the logical move not just removing massive destruction weapons cause war crimes and genocides existed long before MDW in fact they existed wherever you found this huge amount of hate.

On the top of the pyramid is like how to end the world kind of hate but below this hate can still be harmful from violence as a huge percent of homicides based on hatred and revenge which is no surprise at all. Then we find discrimination and how this can lead to more than just hatred feelings as it can climb up this pyramid to the top. Like LGBT and this kind of discrimination is an example, also I think the main reason behind crisis in the middle east which is a vital spot on the world is based on some kind of hate, from discrimination for minorities to the feeling of supremacy for majorities especially there in Egypt, Lebanon, Palestine and Syria.

Through history hate changed the world more than once for example discrimination against Christians in the first century AD just cause they believe in something their governments believe is dangerous for the empire and how this changed the course of history while now there is over two billion christian, ironically discrimination against Muslims is growing although with less violence in most parts of the world (not Burma) but the same idea of stereotyping and religion discrimination still exists. If you looking for more irony you will find out that those same Muslims fighting discrimination are accused of discrimination and mistreating non Muslims in places like the Arab world especially against Jews and atheists.

You can't talk about hate without mentioning the man of the year on time magazine for the year 1938 Adolf Hitler and his hate which leads to creating Holocausts and personally I think what happened during this era is the main reason behind today's Israel-Arab conflict.
Armenians genocide is another example of how hate can cause in blood baths same as Burma situation but I don't have enough trusted information to talk more about it.  

Years and years can pass and time fly by and still some Christians hate Jews for crucifixion of Jesus, Armenians hate Ottoman's (Turkey), Muslims hate Jews, Jews hate Nazis and Germans but I guess with more good quality education this hatred can be minimal.
  
MJK and how he stranded up for discrimination and even his death is to this day an inspiration to me and to other millions same as Gandhi same as the Arab spring they controlled their hate and achieve their goals and even more for bunch of coming generations to look up to those as role models. You can disarm the whole world from any kind of weapons and keep looking or you can plant some useful seeds for better future bottom line Don't tell your kid to hate anyone.




Saturday, July 20, 2013

Hope



"There is always hope" a quote we heard it many times and most of us will agree on that, so we all agree? then where is the hope and why there is so much despair in this world? fact is we say we believe and agree but actions say otherwise. Hope is a myth? I agree hope is myth that we and only we can bring it to life and make it reality, but if u wanna a better definition of hope I'll give you one "positive thinking" and i'm not saying this stuff about energy like "the secret" cause quite honestly I don't believe in that but what I believe in is how powerful minds can be. look at different fields of life "hope" is a gold mine they even get money out of it, yeah I'm talking money. Medically we wanna beat cancer more hope more fund, investment talking more hope more investment even hope in religious matters we hope for heaven we do more good deeds.
Imagine there is no hope at all  we won't try hard enough cause we don't care enough we just wanna survive. keep making scenarios in your head for total negative examples you will find it full of despair.

Who's the leader of hope? you are that leader if you embrace hope to you and to those around you then you're that leader, but through history  some people manipulate others in the name of hope and there is more than one example from crusades to war on terrorism  they create a hope to get benefits. Hope and politics have been always related.

Alfred Adler said: “We cannot think, feel, will, or act without the perception of a goal” which is the meaning of pure hope. Hope is that important that they actually can measure hope so it goes they hope to measure hope cause hope means life.

Be aware the opposite of hope is not despair but it's the fear to hope.